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Texting Japanese men approaching
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2014/10/13 20:58
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Hello! So, I've read a few stories about flirting japanese men here that helped me a lot; but I have this problem and I wish you guys could help me as you helped so kindly others :)
So, I'm 20, foreigner living in Japan, (not making a big deal about myself, really... ._. ) but here in Jp whenever I go I take a lot of compliments from Japanese men and they seem very interested. I'm happy as I could ever be, this never happened in my life before, BUT I really don't know how to awnser and most of the times I'm too shy :/
The thing is, I met this really nice j-boy at a party two weeks ago and he's also shy and stuff but we got to talk and exchanged numbers. By that week he invited me to lunch and to get to know his uni. I went and was so much fun, I loved it, and although I'm shy I tryed to show that I rly enjoyed it and he seemed to enjoy as well, beacuse we met up next day at a club on purpose! At the club we would all the time stay by eachothers side w/o doing anything while his japanese friends and my foreigners friends would hook up with a lot of people and... long story short nothing happened, not even a text after and he told me he would text me.
so I gave like three days and sent a txt like: don't forget me.. which he replied a lot of thing gave me tips on tokyo about typhoon and stuff, he really talked a lot (for a japanese boy on LINE)
but it's been a week we don't talk and I'm really interested in knowing him. what should I do? send another message to meet up? wait more? I don't know how we make these things in Japannnn T_T
thanks
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by rina1994rina
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Re: Texting Japanese men approaching
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2014/10/15 10:07
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You should text him and if he wants to have lunch or dinner and see what he says- if he doesn't answer or says he's too busy you'll know he's not interested anymore. I would advise against texting things like "don't forget me" to a boy you barely know though- it sounds very clingy.
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