Thank you, AK, you are too kind! :)
As for my proficiency in the Japanese language, well, it's a bit better than atrocious. There are times I've said, "‚²‚ß‚ñó‚¢AŽ„‚Ì“ú–{Œê‚͉ºŽè‚Å‚·B" (you'll have to pardon me, but my phone automatically inserts the kanji) I only can read most hiragana and some katakana. My knowledge on kanji goes no further than 10-20 kanji. I have taken a few classes here and there, but there isn't a better system than immersion. I know what I said, "My Japanese is poor/bad" is a little harsh and abrupt (as if I don't wish to continue to speak in Japanese at the moment), but I always add "‚É‚Ù‚ñ‚²‚ª‚«‚ê‚¢‚Å‚·‚Å‚à‚Æ‚Á‚Ä‚à‚Þ‚¸‚©‚µ‚Å‚·" with a smile and with hope they understand I think the language is beautiful but difficult for me. Whether or not they appreciate the effort, I try to speak as much Japanese as I can to be respectful and polite-after all, it's their language and they need not know English. I have a few translation apps for my phone which can help in a bind, but I always try to "rehearse" what I want to say beforehand so it doesn't seem so awkward. As far a Japan goes, I love the country. The people are nice, the scenery is beautiful, the culture is extremely rich,the food is excellent and the transport(which I enjoy) is the best I've experienced. When the earthquake and tsunami happened, I was devastated. I donated to the Japanese Red Cross through my Japanese Society in Chicago when I was taking classes. I donated through my employer (a large home improvement retailer) who matched my donation. I saw the news and reports and was shocked at the damage. I'm not a wealthy person by all means, so I save all I can to go to Japan for holiday. The last one I made sure to coincide with the commemoration of the first anniversary of the earthquake and tsunami. I made sure I was in Ishinomaki on 3/11/12 and was atop Hiyoriyama when 2:46 came and the siren went off. I spent about nine hours in Ishinomaki and wept nearly half the time. A few people asked me if I was alright or if I knew someone who had perished. I told them the best I could that I didn't know anyone personally but that I lost nearly twenty thousand potential friends that day. Most people thought I came from Tokyo or Sendai, but when I told them I came from Chicago, they were surprised and thankful. Some people on this side of the world won't ever forget what happened, no matter how much time goes by. I wished to make it to Okawa Elementary to offer my condolences to those teachers and students who lost their lives there and for the four children left to be found, but instead of Okawa, somehow I ended up in Onagawa by mistake and lost the opportunity. This October, I will correct my mistake and I know where it is now and will take a taxi if I have to in order to make it to that remote place. I wish to buy flowers and place them there and pray, but I don't know which flowers to get. I'm a shy person with a good heart but sometimes I don't know if these things are proper or will be taken the correct way. When it comes to making relationships, perhaps all I want is to keep in touch with people there. I don't have friends in Japan and it would be nice to have that connection. Thank you for the link to the Denim company, that will help. Maybe I can buy a few bags, but I don't know anyone who can sell them here. Maybe if we keep in touch, I can find a retailer they can do business with. Who knows what possibilities the future holds! AK, if you've read this, thank you for your patience and if you can add any etiquette or custom information to help me, I'll definitely appreciate it!
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