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Is it considered rude or odd 2016/10/4 18:39
Hi - just checking with everyone before going to Japan -
Is it considered rude or inappropriate to reply (kindly) - "I'm sorry I cannot afford that" in a store or hotel (when offered a service)?
In Europe it varies from country to country.
Thank you for your input

by Pigreco  

Re: Is it considered rude or odd 2016/10/5 10:36
People won't really say that they "cannot afford" it. I mean, it is not rude, but there is no need to state the reason. I would just say:
- Iie, kekkou desu. (No, I'm fine without it.)
- Iie, yamete okimasu. (No, I'll pass on it.)
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Re: Is it considered rude or odd 2016/10/5 11:10
A simple "no thank you" is polite enough, no need to go into your financial history. At best it would be inappropriate only in that you are giving way more information/explanation than necessary, at worst it could be interpreted as a passive-aggressive comment on their prices or services.
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Re: Is it considered rude or odd 2016/10/5 13:27
Thank you - really appreciate your comments.
I'll memorise those sentences - I realise I must try to be more reserved in Japan - but it's a bit difficult as it goes against ingrained behaviour - I'll have to be careful.
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