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Is it different to compliment a boy?
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2018/3/31 16:09
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I have been reading around on how to say 'i think you are beautiful'/'you are beautiful' but I know some languages have different ways to compliment between boys and girls (if that makes sense), I know a little Japanese, but I'm pretty new to the language so I don't know if saying something like kawaiine or anatawa totemo kireidato omoimasu would be insulting or incorrect to say to a boy? Sorry if this has been asked before!
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by grace (guest)
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Re: Is it different to compliment a boy?
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2018/4/1 00:02
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It depends on the individual, most of my Japanese girl friends only say a boy is kawaii when he is a small child, or perhaps a particularly endearing little ojiisan.
Usually when talking about guys we find physically attractive, kakkoii or ikemen do the job.
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by LIZ (guest)
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Re: Is it different to compliment a boy?
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2018/4/1 11:13
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In English you'd probably use "handsome" or "good/cool-looking" for guys while you might use "beautiful" or "cute" to girls (traditionally speaking), I assume?
There are similar differences in Japanese too. And I agree with LIZ above that "kakkoii" (cool-looking) would suit better. "Ikemen" is also "cool/good looking," but if you are thinking of saying it in your formal speech sentence, it might not really fit in :) (But this is coming from a Japanese woman in her early 50s, so maybe young people say it all the time :))
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by AK
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Re: Is it different to compliment a boy?
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2018/4/1 15:06
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thank you for the replies! would saying 'anatawa kokkoii' be saying 'you are good looking/cool?' Sorry for posting another question, I have trouble putting together sentences sometimes!
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by grace (guest)
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Re: Is it different to compliment a boy?
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2018/4/1 22:43
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I don't know how close you are to that person, but a bit more informal like: - xxx-san, kakkoii desu ne - xxx-san, kakkoii ne (Both say "xxx, you look cool") or - xxx-san wa kakkoii desu ne (You look cool, but using the name instead of "anata") ... might sound less stiff :)
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by AK
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