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Japanese penpal signal
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2014/3/15 17:08
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So, he's my japanese penpal, 21y.o. We're chatting everyday. I've known him for 3 months. A week ago, he asked me to add his facebook. He ask me if i have skype, and want to have video call with me. But, when he asked me to turn on the skype, i'm on my friends' birthday party, so i decline him. Then, after that he answered 'ok' only. Yesterday, he called me via LINE. he said that he's having free time. But unfortunately me, i was driving to my friends' birthday party (again), and i asked him if we can talk just a little bit, because i'm driving. He answered 'good job', and i asked him what does it mean. He said 'you always go to your friends' bday party'. Until now, he won't reply my messages. What should i do?
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by Mirei (guest)
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Re: Japanese penpal signal
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2014/3/16 15:35
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To construct the penpal friendship is an extremely difficult and take time. If one side disagree with the other, the friendship corrupts easily.
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by tokyo friend 48
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Re: Japanese penpal signal
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2014/3/20 19:35
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He thinks you are busy?
Counter-propose a good time to chat.
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by CL (guest)
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Re: Japanese penpal signal
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2014/3/20 23:11
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He sound very clingy and lonely... especially it just a penpal and that is not normal. That his problem, not your. He must be having his personal issue.
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by AdventureGuy (guest)
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Re: Japanese penpal signal
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2014/3/20 23:17
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i dunno, i think you are giving bad signals
if someone i was talking to was always somehow going to somebody's birthday party literally every time i tried to talk to them, i would think they're lying and just don't want to talk to me
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by winterwolf
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Re: Japanese penpal signal
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2014/3/20 23:39
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at least in Japan, if you tell the same (or similar) reasons against the same (or similar) offers, it means that you DO NOT want to do that. To prevent such a misunderstanding, we will tell different reasons against the same offers, even if the reasons are the same (or similar).
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by ken (guest)
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