Hi, As the title says, I'm seriously confused as to how this Japanese girl is feeling about me. I'll start off with the details I guess? I'm currently 16 in highschool (please don't judge!) and I've been learning Japanese for a few years now. However, our Japanese class had an opportunity this year to go on and exchange to Japan. This meant that I would be hosting a student from Japan, and when I go over to Japan , I would be hosted by the same family. So, a month ago, the Japanese students arrived and we obviously all had a good time. This is where the catalyst for my confusion started. This girl, let's call her A, seemed to start taking interest me. I didn't really know or talk to her before, but since we were in the same 'friend' group and she was willing to be friends, I obviously wouldn't mind being friends with her too. She would take alot of pictures of me, and by alot, I mean 100+ over a day of photos of only me. She would get all touchy with me even in public, always hugging me, and holding my arm tighly, like we were a couple haha. She even posted all the 100 photos on Facebook, naming the album of the photos "I love youu". Over the days, You could say that I slowly fell for her too. After she left, we would LINE each other, and she would always say things to me such as "I fell in love with you," or "I miss you" and being the cheesy guy I am, I would reply with the same things, and she wouldn't mind. One day, while we were messaging, She suddenly told me that she wanted a boyfriend. With all that she had said to me, and this last "hint" that she wanted a boyfriend, I thought that if I asked her out, she would definitely say yes. So I said something on the lines of "will you be my girlfriend?" Her response was not I was expecting though. She said to me that "Of course I like you but I want you to be my friend:(" I am seriously confused as to how she felt about me before, after receiving that response. The thing is, I'm also heading over to Japan this weekend for the exchange. I know I'm still young, and I know that LDR's rarely work, so I'm not expecting much. How should I act around her in Japan? I shouldn't be as touchy as were in Australia right? Thankyou for listening if you actually bothered to read the whole thing!
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