Don't listen to the naysayers. Life is short, you only live once, and the heart wants what the heart wants.
Those are all cliches, but they are all true. Do you really want to go to Japan? If you do, it is possible.
Possibilities for a job in Japan: First, if you don't speak or read Japanese, start learning it. It makes finding a job in Japan much easier.
The easiest way to get income is to use your language skills, whatever your native language is. Your English is pretty good, so I imagine you are very literate in your native tongue. Even if your native language is one of the less global languages in Europe, like Czech, there are almost certainly multiple people in Tokyo who would pay decent money for private lessons in that language. If you are a reasonably attractive young foreigner, the sad truth is that will make it even easier. (and I'm not implying anything sleazy)
Other possibilites are for using your language skills in the translation industry, first as a proofreader/translation checker and later (once you can read or speak Japanese proficiently) as a translator or interpreter.
To do any of the above, though, you will need the proper visa.
When you visit your boyfriend you will be on a tourist visa or equivalent. Unless your country has a working holiday arrangement with Japan, you will not be allowed to work. (And I don't advise trying to work on the sly on a tourist visa; if you get caught it will cause you huge problems in the future if you want to live in Japan with your boyfriend.)
However, even on a tourist visa you can still *investigate* work possibilities. Talk to foreigners living there, find out how they started out, network, look into what's available, etc.
Of course, this will also be the time for you to find out if you really love your boyfriend. Because with your current limited economic situation, it would be best if you two were able to decide one way or another whether you want to marry or not in a relatively short time frame (a couple of months). Once you get married, you can change to a spouse visa, which will allow you to work.
From the above, it sounds like I am saying get married for the sake of the visa, but that is not what I mean. You don't need me to tell you what to do, but to be clear: get married because you love him, and then you can take care of getting a job. Marrying someone you don't love for the sake of a visa would just lead to a lot of stress and unhappiness, and you would be better off trying to find someone in your own country in the first place.
But right now, you are young and can afford (in the sense of having a lot of time to fix mistakes) to take some risks. Don't take stupid risks, like moving in with that guy right away, but if he doesn't give off a creepy vibe then you might try living together after a while to see if you are truly compatible.
Think of it as an adventure! Going off to live in Asia! If it doesn't work out, at least you will have done something different and exciting, and found out some stuff about yourself and about another culture. If it does work out, how cool would that be?
Take it from me, you only live once, and you are only young once, and it is a lot easier to do something like what you want to do now at 25 (or whatever) then it will be at 35.
Good luck.
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