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Wedding in Japan
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2013/4/7 23:42
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I am going to Japan for a wedding between my niece and a japaneese boy. Will his parents be expecting a gift from me? Would a book with pictures from Sweden be apropriate in that case?
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by Astrid Råberg (guest)
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Re: Wedding in Japan
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2013/4/8 21:28
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Will his parents be expecting a gift from me?Never. BTW, maybe you give money about 70,000yen in goShugi-bukuro at reception desk of wedding place when you arrive there. "goShugi-bukuro" http://goo.gl/CsuRgYou might want to ask your niece or her parents in advance?
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by ajapaneseboy
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Re: Wedding in Japan
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2013/4/8 22:14
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Astrid Råberg,
Well, I wouldn't at all say "never" about the parents.
Are you representing the family of the bride? If so, it would be a nice gesture to bring a long a small something from your country. I once attended a Japanese friend's wedding in England on behalf of her parents. I was the only person coming from Japan and I brought along some small dishware for the English bride groom's parents.
But if someone closer to your niece is attending the wedding, discuss with that person. I don't think you have to actually shower the Japanese parents with gifts from the whole family.
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by Uco (guest)
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Re: Wedding in Japan
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2013/4/9 12:40
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Would a book with pictures from Sweden be apropriate in that case?
As a gift, that would be a nice gesture :)
If you are invited to attend the banquet along with other Japanese guests, the custom of "go-shugi" (money gift) might apply. But I have no idea where the first poster came up with that amount, which I consider too much in any case...
As Uco-san rightly suggested, I would discuss the matter with any other family member attending from your country, and also possibly talk to your niece about what kind of wedding it will be as well.
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by AK
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