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What is the meaning behind his words? 2013/7/17 06:53
I have been dating a Japanese guy for several months. These days, he mentioned to me the following:
素直でいい子。

I asked him what does he mean. His reply was this:

従順だということです。

I didn't ask him any further questions and explanation about this. So, here I am, with the hopes that you guys here in Japan Guide will enlighten me!

Btw: Our communication is in Japanese only.

Any tips, advice and suggestions are welcome.
by water lilly (guest)  

Re: What is the meaning behind his words? 2013/7/17 08:54
He said that you're a tame good girl
by naes (guest) rate this post as useful

Re: What is the meaning behind his words? 2013/7/17 09:31
Sounds rather condescending to me.
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Re: What is the meaning behind his words? 2013/7/17 14:53
従順 is obedient, submissive, etc.
You will find out what his true character is like, when you challenge him.
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Re: What is the meaning behind his words? 2013/7/17 14:55
Naes and Fluffy, thank you for the replies!

Do his words mean that, if we marry, he expects me to be obedient to him?
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Re: What is the meaning behind his words? 2013/7/17 14:56
Thank you Ay for the reply!

Could this mean that he expect me to be obedient to him?
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Re: What is the meaning behind his words? 2013/7/17 19:05
You can't judge anything from this, really. It's a common expression when jokingly settling a situation where no conflict or sarcasm was done.
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