Unless your wife is on bad terms with her parent(s), for initial set-up in Japan I would suggest relying on her mother. (I know you'd rather not.) Do you have enough savings to live for a while in Japan? Would you be able to rent an apartment with both of you not in employment?
Your wife will be your sponsor (as the Japanese spouse), but if she doesn't have any tax record or current employment to show that she herself can support you, she might have to reply on her parent(s) for financial guarantor. In Japan it is normal for young adults to rely on their parent(s) for signing guarantor letters for apartment rent for example, so I would not consider this a big burden. We used to do that until I was in my late 30s (though we hated it, there was no other way, at least not back then).
The only experiences we've had so far (me Japanese and my non-Japanese husband) that are even remotely similar to yours have been: being unable to rent an apartment without support from my parents back when we were young, and when my spouse applied for a change of resident status from "work" to "spouse" when his contract with a Japanese company was no longer renewed, so with him out of work, and me with limited freelance work.
At that time (the second situation), we wrote up a letter stating the situation, what kind of education/training and career path he had had so far, the circumstances where his contract didn't get renewed, our hope to find new employer soon in such and such field, etc., with a credible story. Back then we were not required to show any bank statement or tax papers, but for your reference I believe for "student" visa the required amount the immigration authorities want to see is either 2 or 3 million yen, for a year's study.
So... without assistance from your wife's mother, you could do something similar - outlining your career so far in Canada, your experience before in Japan, your wife's career so far in Japan/Canada, write up about what kind of job you'd realistically expect to find in Japan, based on what you used to do in Japan, etc. However, (as you say it is a conservative country) they might ask for additional financial guarantor in Japan, which will be your in-law(s).
Another thing you need to take into consideration is timing and how you go about obtaining your spouse visa: if you come in with your family and simply get Temporary Visitor status upon entry, and if/when you find a job, you'll be applying for a Change of Resident Status from Temporary Visitor to a work-permitting one. This could take from a few weeks to three months, during which you cannot yet work.
If you apply for Spouse visa from outside Japan, and come in after you receive it (which might take time), if/when you find work in Japan, you can start your work right off.
You could also see if you can find work from outside Japan. Possibly come in with an employer-sponsored work visa, and then later change to spouse status. Please plan well. Best wishes. By the way, the "visa" that we are talking about isn't spelled in capital letters :)
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