I have been here for 8 months. I came with very very basic aisatsu and a some random vocabulary. It took me about a week for hiragana and a week for katakana. If you walk around and constantly try and read signs, you will keep practice with those alphabets.
I am on 4th grade kanji and plan on finishing elementary school this year (2014) and take on high school next year. I work for a company that is owned by my wife's family. So I am lucky and get time to to study everyday. There is little to no English spoken at work, so I have to struggle through Japanese. I learned about 5,000 vocabulary words in Romaji, which help but without the Kanji, they can get confusing because the sounds and meanings are so similar, they are easy to mess up.
It's only been 8 months, but I have been ridiculed, threatened and put in my place by my wife and her family for my lack of picking up Japanese fast enough. So I am doing it all under pressure. I study at home when I go home, but have a small baby, so I also have to take care of the child and learn how to be a father, which is a challenge itself.
I can already communicate pretty well with many people. Basic conversation is easy and when I have had a few drinks, I stop thinking and become really good in conversation. Understanding is hard, especially when people speak to you as if you are fluent, when in fact you aren't. I recommend tackling Kanji as soon and as hard core as possible because if you get through the 6th grade level, most basic conversation words, you will really understand. Once you get there, go crazy with flashcards learning vocabulary and use words as much as possible. Make lots of mistakes and speak speak speak.
Also, remember to take breaks and enjoy yourself as much as possible. If you get frustrated and feel at a loss, you will get in danger of what happens to many foreigners, and start blaming Japan and hating it here. Japan is by no means and easy place to live, unless you are rich and fluent in Japanese. The passive aggressive approach that many people here take to things may make everything, including learning the language difficult. Be yourself, and have fun with it, and you can speak in a year. I speak well enough to get by now after 8 months, and I still think I never went about it the right way. Also, make sure someone who can speak both Japanese and English is available to help you. Some concepts and weird things about the language need to be explained in English. When you do start to speak, be extremely confident. Japanese people are very insecure, especially with foreign language. They also are honored and surprised when a westerner confidently speaks their language to them, even if the grammar is all over the place. They will usually understand wheat you are trying to say and (unless its my wife and her family) be very impressed and likely to want to work with you.
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