Hello. I'm pretty sure similar questions have been asked, and I've been thoroughly reading up on questions already answered - but I felt that I'd like to post something myself for answered geared specifically to my situation. I will keep an open mind as well as any harsh criticism,if any; and I thank you for your time! First off - I'm 21 years old. I am currently a community college student, general studies major. I don't know if they're bullshitting me, but I've been told my Japanese is very good. I'd like to improve my Japanese to a more advanced level, for job situations in business or teaching, but I do communicate okay. I use Japanese everyday, sometimes I speak more Japanese than English with friends I have over there - none of which speak English. What do I want to do exactly? I want to save up money to cover my ticket, enough money to keep me solid for awhile; I want to pack as little as possible and hop on a flight over to Tokyo. Once in Tokyo I would like to find a job. Since I have not finished school I'm not exactly 'qualified' in any way for certain jobs, but the kind of job I am looking for is a basic "part time" job that I'd be working full time - and better yet, one that I can use my ability to speak both Japanese and English to my benefit. I'm currently studying Mandarin Chinese in school; so maybe by the time I'm over there I'll have that under my wing too. I'm not looking to get loaded, or even live 'comfortably'. My only desire is to go over to Japan and find a job that can be enough for me to pay for my rent and basic necessities. I'm alone, so a cheap semi apartment would be fine. So yeah - enough money for ticket and for rent for awhile. Currently I have a few friends living in Tokyo that offered me a place to stay until I can get myself settled in; but in case of emergencies I am trying to factor in the possibility that I might be living out of a common motel or something for awhile -- just in case. I'm not sure how long I want to stay in Japan, but at the very least; I have no desire to come back to America for awhile. I have lived in Japan for one year before, during a high school exchange program.
Now I'm sure some of you will tell me I should probably finish school and what not first and make my way in through a student VISA through a program or something -- something I've looked into, and have gathered plenty of information on - and will always be another option I will consider; but I wanted to learn more about 'running off', which is why I'm asking. The school I was looking into getting into was Temple University Japan. Currently my GPA and my school transcript is a joke - needless to say I spent a year off from college and the rest of the time partying. I've only just started to be 'serious' (Not that I wasn't before, but I didn't know what I wanted to do so ultimately I ended up not doing anything at all.) It's not just the anxiety of wanting to get out of New York, out of this country -- I generally want to feel like I have to work a lot harder to survive, on my own. And yes. It'll be hard - I know. But hard doesn't frighten me... So my initial plan was to better my transcript and apply to TUJ, which is nice and all; but I'm skeptical about the money ($30,000 first year) for the tuition. Skeptical as in, my mother is willing to pay for any of my school expenses but she has seemingly become very doubtful concerning any studying abroad. Mostly because she's not sure I'm serious about making a place for myself somewhere far enough where she can't keep a direct eye on me. A reasonable thing, but I'm not a minor anymore. The fact that I have to rely on my parents for my tuition makes me feel childish...I want to get out and work on my own. I'm more than 100% positive if my mother sees that I can go off to Japan, keep up a job and a place of my own all by myself, she'll have no problems paying for TUJ. If I can't make it, then well -- I guess I am not as determined as I think I am. Working in Japan will also help me with my Japanese -- and perhaps through networking I can find better working situations. Eventually, I want to get into a Tokyo school (TUJ being my top choice) - and if for some reason my mother ends up still not wanting to pay for tuition, then I guess I'll be saving up money for something more than just rent. I also understand I may return home sooner than I'd plan -- but I'm fine with that, because things happen; and plans don't go over as nicely as you'd like. My point is, I want to do this no matter what, even if it's a completely stupid idea to spontaneously live in a foreign country with nothing but some money and the clothes that I can carry, I want to be as smart as possible about it. I know it would be much easier to stay here, continue with school until I feel comfortable applying to TUJ and see how it goes from there -- but I want to get out sooner than that. However, if by the time it takes me to save up enough money that I will go, I have done enough schooling to apply to TUJ, I will do that. Basically which ever comes first. If I get enough money before I can apply, then once I've secured the move I will probably go. I don't know how naive it sounds to say that I don't care about living in a small room, working a hard job for barely enough money, and essentially pulling myself from my comfortable life here in America to toss myself into what would be the unknown chaos of being a young college student with an unimpressive school record (All due to absences, not academic ability. Unfortunately the grades are what they are.) I don't know how long my 'plan' will work, how long I can survive. But I want to try anyway, and I feel more motivated than waiting around here going to 'school' when I feel that I'm not living 'hard enough'.
That being said, any information would really be appreciated - especially legal matters, as in; what would the maximum amount of time be for me to stay, which VISA might be best for me to look into, etc - Just really any thoughts or helpful tips to make my very stupid and spontaneous decision as safe as smooth as I can make it go. If I manage to make it over to Japan, my worst thought would to be absolutely unable to get money to pay for a home. (Though like I said, my friends will take me in.) ...Or getting killed. Haha. Not that I think that I'm going to get killed over there, just saying -- the worst possible scenario for me would be to be dead. Even if it becomes hard or stressful, I want to try and work at it anyways. The way I am here at home, feels like it's way worse. Lastly - concerning 'better' jobs through VISA sponsorship and all that; I'm assuming these jobs are based mostly on your work resume and your educational background. I have really nothing of either (to show for on paper or otherwise) -- but are any of these jobs obtainable based just on your actual fluency in Japanese or English? If that's the case, then if I constantly work on my Japanese, would it be possible to secure a VISA sponsorship? Thanks again, Sami.
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