She is an Japanese exchange student at my university. When we first met, we hanged out but we didn't talk as much during the beginning of her arrival, but after about a month and a half, our friendship grew stronger really fast. Since that time, I feel as though I am developing mix feelings for her. Just to point out, I really like Japanese culture/language. We both teach each other the languages. Below, I will talk in detail of what gave me this idea that she likes me. When we hang out with our friends, very often if I am sitting in a seat, she will either walk into the room, find me, and sit in my lap or finish talking to her friends, come over to where I am sitting, and she would casually sit in my lap. When this first started, I didn't mind because I am very comfortable around her. When she sits in my lap, sometimes she is playful with me. I'll be playful back to her. Other times, she would droop purposely in my lap and slide down as if sexually. I didnt have a reaction before but now Im starting to have one. Some of our friends notice our behavior and they have a confuse look on there face because at the time when she first started doing that, she had a boyfriend(american). He is also our friend. Me and him are very good friends. I also have a boyfriend. Me and my boyfriend recently met. Im getting to know him and Im developing feelings for him every time I think, talk, and hang out with him. Now, I don't think she is dating our friend any more but of course still friends with him. I don't want to ask her if she is still dating him because I feel as though she will feel uncomfortable. At times, she will become shy if something sexually comes up and she doesn't understand the meaning.
Another situation is when everytime when we are together, she always tries to hold my hand multiple times. It happens both in public and private. At times, I dont mind but when this happen when she was with her boyfriend during the time when I knew for sure that they were dating, she would still try to do it. At times, I feel as though Im getting stared at by him due to her during that.
When me and her hang out, we go to places to eat, study, party, and talk together. Im very sarcastic. She told me that every time she is with me, she cant stop laughing. I told her that shes funny too and cute when she messes up on saying a word wrong. She also makes fun of my Japanese. Recently we have been seeing each other alot this entire week. Before, I dont think we ever did that.
Another situation is that she said that she likes me in Japanese. While we were joking around about something, she slip into her sentence suki desu. Of course I heard that and she knows that I knew what the words mean. After she said that to me, she smiled. I smiled back at her and started to slightly giggle. After that we continued with our conversation. I didn't want to respond back to her that I like her too because Im not too sure of how strong those words are. Now to clarify with these situations, I purposely do not try to come on to her. In fact, its the complete opposite. Can you guys give me your opinions about my situation? I just want to see if I am overthinking this matter or not.
THANKS
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