@ Sarumo Kikara
Yo! Cheers for the advice, although I'm not really planning to be anyone but myself. And that is where the problem lies, I feel most of the time I'm a very shy person, even though the outside people don't realise. Having not such skills playing with kids, I just wanted to hear opinions.
I think myself has always been 100% honest, and not faking smiles, or anything, therefore maybe I am naturally hard to approach! Of course, I'm smiling and try to blend in a natural way, but I'm just not a "crowd" pleaser. However... I'm not scary, I am friendly and do anything to help. It just takes a bit more time to know me, and you have a real friend! ;'P
Btw, I'm also Asian, and not "exactly hairy on my arm", but thanks for the kancho suggestion, i don't think it's a good idea. cheers!
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@ Uco
Hey Uco! Yes, I was thinking to get some toys, although I decided not to, since it's the first time meeting them, and I only brought my own country's special tea and biscuits for parents, and her sister's families. Buying toys I feel it could be a bit too much, and I want to enjoy my experience with them without toys. However I have thought of buying artistic children's sets. not sure.......
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@ Uma
Hello Uma! Thanks for your advice! I also think normal gifts is ok, and not too expensive. Just food would be ok!
i also agree with your advice, I won't try too hard to be friendly with the kids. I do feel when a child is ready to approach a person they're not familiar, they will do so in an unexpected way, but if they don't, I respect that too.
As for relating to adults is more "important" I also agree, although not speaking a word of Japanese, and vice versa for them, I will rely heavily in body language. Yes, I don't want my GF to translate everything, it's not fair for her.
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