I do understand why some Japanese poepl won't say aishiteru, or at least so lightly. Here in Miami, Fl of USA. People say I love you but truly dont understand the word. It does get trown around a lot, and wasted. I am a 22year old student male, very unique from the society in Miami. I takes so much to understand, appriciate, and feel those words "I love you" or word, "aishiteru". I lvoe my girlfriend. And i mean i truly love you. let me explain. I have told her that i will be with her for ever, for all of eturnity. I have told her that i love her with all my heart, life, spirit, mind, body, and everything the makes me, me. When i told her that, i meant exactly, and literally that. I have made my hcoice, and it is her. I also understand what that means, I have even told god and have told him the same thing, with the outmost respect of course. my love for her is unlimitted and undying. She is my life, my world, my heaven. and much, much more. I truly feel, mean, and understand that, it is my choice, and i have made it so. In making that choice, i have given her my outmost respect, i have given her my heart and life, so if she we to be departed from this earth, i would be with her, in everyway. It has taken an extreme amount of understanding, enlighment, trust, bravery, courage, and love in order to do this. i understand why it is so hard to say "aishiteru". It is a choice that one must make with there very essence and a bond that can never break. Making that choice can bring the most severe Consequences if the other person throws your heart away. thats why most people are too afriad to make such a risk, but i made that risk knowingly and with faith. no matter what pains, deaths,suffering that i may ever face. It takes a lot. Good news is that when ever it gets done, the result are enourmusly wonderful. You can feel each other emotion, spirits, hearts, literatly. It opens the passage to understand one another to inhuman lengths. You can read each other thoughs, and much, much more. I do say aishiteru to my love. and i say it with all of my fiath and bravery. That is my answer. I apologize for making it confusing or difficult,just in case. ;) lol.
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