Hi Joe, I was in Yokohama from June 1967 until October 1969 so I had a good long run there. I was newly married and lived in a couple of places which were Japanese apartments. I did not qualify for dependant support so we were pretty much on our own which was fine for us. We did a lot of traveling and immersed ourselves in the culture extensively, learning Japanese [ as well as one could given the time] making great friends and generally having a good time given the overtones of what was happening, war wise. We climbed Mt. Fuji on the day of the moon landing, camped out on a island with orchids in Matsushima, spent a week in Kyoto, hiked the island of Sado, stayed on the island of Oshima, "lived" in Kamakura, got lost and wandered into a Buddhist monestary, made friends with a Japanese rock band, learned ikebana, visited the Ainu in Hokkaido ,hunted yama-imo, danced the Bon odori, sent back tons of stuff, and being a food inspector, helped process thousands of tons of supplies. We "did it all" except that there was not enough time to do it all, but we tried. Retrospectively I owe a lot to my ex wife who planned trips, read guide books, met tour guides who would then set up short and long term plans for travel and other experiences. We would spend some time almost every night planning our next journey and figuring out trains, language skills ect. It is hard to figure what ifs', however If I had been single I know that I would not have been as forthright in doing what I did and probably would have hit the Peanut Club every night and done little else. Also, as a couple we were able to do things that a single man or woman might not be able to. We kept each other focused and cancelled out otherwise tempting negative influnences that otherwise would have been a detraction. No regrets.. well.. might liked to have a Japanese girlfriend.. but.. we did a lot! Every night, every weekend and as many days off as I could squeeze. Our little apartment seemed like only a base from which we would sleep, plan, pack, and go forth from. We silently realized that we would never have this type of oppertunity ever again, and that our age and good health was in our favor. We were very fortunate but in a way helped make that good fortune, by really working at it and not just letting it happen to us. Over the last few years i have been on this forum starting on,, omg page 15. So if you really want to get board you could "scan that". Nice to know you, where are you living now ? I am in Southern New Hampshire
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